Bachon ki Taleem ke Sath Sath Tarbiyat bhi Zaroori hai

Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

Is post mein jo main likh raha hoon, woh bahut khas hai. Yeh post hamare bachon ki tarbiyat ke talluq se hai. Aksar ye dekhne mein aata hai ke hum apne bachon ke bare mein aur khas taur par unki taleem-o-padhai ke liye kafi fikrmand rehte hain. Hum chahte hain ke hamara bacha aala se aala taleem hasil kare, aur hona bhi aisa hi chahiye. Lekin hum isi soch-o-fikr ke darmiyan ek aisi cheez bhool jate hain jo bahut hi zaroori aur lazim hai, aur woh cheez hai *bachon ki tarbiyat*.

Taleem ke Sath Tarbiyat bhi Zaroori hai

Taleem ke sath-sath tarbiyat ki zaroorat wa ifadiyat ko kisi bhi taur par nazar-andaz nahi kiya ja sakta. Lekin afsos ke sath ye kehna pad raha hai ke aaj kal taleem par to dhyan diya ja raha hai, lekin tarbiyat ki taraf kuch khayal hi nahi hai.

Agar hum chahte hain ke hamara bacha doctor, engineer, ya wakeel banne ke sath-sath achha aur mehazab insan aur Musalman bhi bane, to iske liye humein bachpan se hi achhi tarbiyat karni hogi. Lekin ye yaad rakhen ke bache ko ache se ache school mein dakhil kara dena kafi nahi hai, balke humein bazat-e-khud ghar mein apne bache par khas tawajjah deni hogi.

Aam taur par ye dekha gaya hai ke bache ki jo tarbiyat ghar par ki jati hai, wahi zyada moassar aur kar-aamad sabit hoti hai. Bache ki tabiyat aur aadat-o-mizaj mein usi ka rang jhalakta hai.

Ghar par Bachon ki Tarbiyat karna

Ghar par bachon ki tarbiyat karna bahut aasan hai. Yaad rakhiye, bache aksar apne walidain ko follow karte hain. Lihaza, humein apne lifestyle par khas taur par nazar rakhni hogi. Agar hamara rehen-sehen, baat karne ka andaz, aur dusron ke sath bartao ka tareeqa durust hoga, to bacha khud-ba-khud in baton ko apnata chala jayega.

Bachon ki Tarbiyat ke Liye Chand Zaroori Umoor

1. Pyar o Mohabbat ka Sulook:

Aulad ki achhi tarbiyat ke liye zaroori hai ke unke sath pyar o mohabbat ka sulook kiya jaye, taake woh hamari baat aasani se maan len. Nabi Kareem (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) ne Hazrat Hasan aur Husain (Radi Allahu Anhuma) ko bosa diya karte the, unke sath khelte the, aur unhein khush rakha karte the.

2. Dini aur Dunyavi Taleem:

Ham par hamari aulad ka ye bhi haq hai ke unhein dini aur dunyavi achhi taleem aur tarbiyat ka ahtemam karen, taake woh is zewar se aarasta hokar apni duniya aur aakhirat sanwar saken.

3. Akhlaq o Aadaab ki Taleem:

Unhein uthne-bethne, sone-jagne, khane-pine, aur chalne-phirne wagairah muamalat mein Islami aadaab o akhlaq sikhaye jayen.

4. Raaz ki Hifazat:

Hazrat Ali (Radi Allahu Anhu) farmate hain:

**"Apne aap ko aur apne ghar walon ko bhalai ki taleem do. Apni aulad ko is baat ki bhi tarbiyat den ke raaz ki baat ko raaz mein rakhna kis qadar zaroori hai."**

5. Rehamdili aur Afu-darguzar:

Unhein dusron ke sath rehamdili, adal-o-ihsan, aur afu-darguzar ke sath pesh aane ki aadat dalen.

6. Achhi Sohbat ki Targheeb:

Nabi Kareem (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) ne farmaya:

"Aadmi apne dost ke deen par hota hai. Tum mein se har ek ko chahiye ke achhi tarah dekhe ke kis se dosti kar raha hai."

7. Allah aur Rasool ki Mohabbat:

Ek Musalman ke liye sabse aham baat ye hai ke woh apni aulad ke dil-o-dimagh mein Allah Ta'ala, uske Rasool (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam), Deen-e-Islam, Ulama-e-Islam, aur buzurgon ki mohabbat, tazeem, aur tauqeer paida karne ki koshish kare.

Khulasa

Bachon ki taleem ke sath-sath unki tarbiyat par bhi khas tawajjah dena zaroori hai. Achhi tarbiyat se hi bacha ek behtreen insan aur Musalman ban sakta hai. Allah Ta'ala hum sabko apni aulad ki achhi tarbiyat karne ki taufiq ata farmaye. *Ameen.*

JazakAllah Khair!